khafra comments on Open Thread, April 15-30, 2013 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: khafra 26 April 2013 07:01:43PM 1 point [-]

Are you a guy that wants more social interaction? Do you wish you could get complimented on your appearance?

Grow a beard! For some reason, it seems to be socially acceptable to compliment guys on a full, >1", neatly trimmed beard. I've gotten compliments on mine from both men and women, although requests to touch it come mostly from the latter (but aren't always sexual--women with no sexual attraction to men also like it). Getting the compliments pretty much invariably improves my mood; so I highly recommend it if you have the follicular support.

Comment author: TimS 26 April 2013 08:02:25PM 5 points [-]

Because of differences in local culture, please list what country you live in, and perhaps what region.

Comment author: khafra 26 April 2013 11:57:35PM *  0 points [-]

I thought of listing "Southeast USA." However, a large metropolitan area in Florida, where I live, is a fairly cosmopolitan blend of Western culture. Not super-hip like a world-class city; and not provincial like 50 miles in any direction.

And the compliments have come from diverse sources--women at clubs, women on college campuses, military officers, people one socioeconomic class up and down...

Comment author: CAE_Jones 26 April 2013 08:39:30PM 0 points [-]

I've heard people get complimented on their beards quite a bit in the past 8 years or so. Central/south Arkansas, but the locations were specifically college campuses (I think there was some beard-complimenting going around at ASMSA (residential high school intended to be more college-like), but I could be misremembering since the person I'm thinking of was active in other places I went). It was recommended to me, I think more than once.