blacktrance comments on Dark Arts of Rationality - Less Wrong

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Comment author: blacktrance 20 January 2014 11:19:11PM *  0 points [-]

I think the problem here is one of motivation to self-modify. For example, it's one thing to want to self-modify to like spicy food (possible, but potentially unpleasant) or become bisexual (possible for some, probably, but not for others), but other self-modifications are less desirable - for example, I wouldn't want to be more interested in "normal people" even if it would increase the number of people with whom I'd have relationships.

Comment author: HoverHell 09 February 2014 07:46:47PM 1 point [-]

Side-tip: it is useful to be "interested" in "normal people" in non-knowledge-directed ways. Not likely useful for a relationship but quite likely useful for friendships. (assuming you, as many non-normal-people around here, are treating "interest" as something on the lines of "useful knowledge").

Comment author: blacktrance 09 February 2014 07:48:20PM 0 points [-]

I meant "interest" in the sense of "enjoy interaction with" or "enjoy a relationship with".

Comment author: HoverHell 12 February 2014 09:42:49AM 2 points [-]

Then why wouldn't you [prefer to] enjoy more the interaction with most people?

Comment author: Nornagest 09 February 2014 08:12:52PM *  0 points [-]

I'd expect most of the gains from becoming more interested in "normal people" to come from the side effect of improving your emotional rapport with such people, not limited to those you might be interested in dating, not from the direct effect of increasing your supply of potential relationships.