ChristianKl comments on Open Thread April 4 - April 10, 2016 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: ChristianKl 05 April 2016 10:49:19PM 4 points [-]

I can't use the same girl twice because it's about initiatory kisses, a behavioural experiment about rejection :)

If you are with a girl who likes you, focus on enjoying the interaction.

Don't try to flee into the mindset of running a detached experiment.

Comment author: Clarity 06 April 2016 10:26:41PM 0 points [-]

The night before last I said I really like spending time with you, and other skirtish things ie that to which her replies would be things like 👍 or thanks. No reciprocation. But she like holding hands, cuddling and kissing. She's even cool with my messed up sexuality. I haven't introduced the mental health stuff or losing my virginity at a brothel yet but I wonder how she will take that :P I don't know that she sees me as boyfriend material...yet

Comment author: ChristianKl 07 April 2016 12:49:42PM 1 point [-]

Her not actively reciproting by explicitely saying that she likes spending time with you might simply mean that she's shy. If she actually likes kissing you, she likely likes you. It doesn't mean that shes committed to having a relationship with you but that things are going in the right direction.