Meditation, but I don't think it would have landed earlier.
Insights from 1, like it not being my job to solve problems, it's my job to show up and orient myself toward the problem. Whether it gets solved or not isn't really in my control.
Relaxation is a skill. Like most skills, especially ones you've never trained, a small amount of deliberate practice yields large improvements.
Note taking system I enjoy using.
Increasing typing speed and buying the keyboard that maximizes speed after testing.
Desk ergonomics
Getting rid of most belongings a la Marie Kondo
Food allergy testing
Doing things that take less than five minutes immediately a la Getting Things Done
Training to notice hamster pellet loops aka news feeds, notifications, etc.
Creativity training a la The Butterfly and the Net
Relaxation is a skill. Like most skills, especially ones you've never trained, a small amount of deliberate practice yields large improvements.
Very interested in details here. I've noticed myself having a hard time relaxing, and have put some effort into figuring out how but not really been sure how to go about it.
How did you go about increasing your typing speed? I'm currently using https://www.keybr.com/ but would be happy to know about additional resources. And what keyboard did you get?
Currently undergoing a CBT program for improved sleeping. It is literally giving me 3-4 extra productive hours a day. (By cutting down roughly 1.5h of lying in bed not sleeping, and sleeping overall 1.5h-2.5 less.) That's roughly an extra two months every year.
It's the most surprising and effective productivity thing I've done in years, and costs only $25 a week + 1h of watching instruction videos, and some energy/mental effort of sticking to the routine.
Though note that I've only done it for 2.5 weeks and expect the final improvements to land on 0-2 extra hours per day.
Do you still endorse this program? How much sleep improvement have you derived from it? How would I know whether I would get any benefit?
Exercising semi-regularly, and eating semi-healthily. I wish I could send a specific advice to my former self, two decades ago. The "specific" part is important, because I have received lot of advice which was either wrong, or just strongly incompatible with my preferences.
Without going into too much detail, the specific advice optimized for me would contain:
Thanks for sharing! If you want to, I would be curious to know how the last 2 points made you feel bad for not adopting earlier (if there's anything more specific than just the general point)
Being pro-actively social, learning social interaction and dynamics.
Sleeping full nights every day.
Saying no to unhealthy social pressures (ex: smoking weed to fit-in)
Making lists and writing every day.
Journaling. Writing down exactly why I am taking the important decisions in my life, and then later on looking back on that journal and evaluating/correcting my decision making process.
Also wish I had more control over my environment earlier on. Ex: I lived with a cat for 4 years despite being allergic because everyone in my family wanted one. Looking back I think this caused the sinus problems I now deal with. Also my family had terrible nutrition when I was growing up, which I believe impaired my body's height and ability to gain muscle.
Being pro-actively social, learning social interaction and dynamics.
Could you give precisions on what you did to improve?
I think the main one for me is learning to be productive
It can be a decision, a skill, a habit, etc.
Can be because the improvement was very valuable, obvious in insight, a moral imperative, or any other reason.
Note that I'm specifically looking for things that made you feel bad for not having done it earlier, not a simple "ah, I guess it would have been useful to know that earlier".