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How does one overcome the illusion of control over others? I feel like I think a lot about people I have crushes on because I feel like I can affect their decision to like me more than I can influence others.
Real world feedback. If you actually ask out girls for whom you have a crush you might very soon learn that you don't have much control over their decisions.