My current plan does still call for me to write a rationality book - at some point, and despite all delays - which means I have to decide what goes in the book, and what doesn't. Obviously the vast majority of my OB content can't go into the book, because there's so much of it.
So let me ask - what was the one thing you learned from my posts on Overcoming Bias, that stands out as most important in your mind? If you like, you can also list your numbers 2 and 3, but it will be understood that any upvotes on the comment are just agreeing with the #1, not the others. If it was striking enough that you remember the exact post where you "got it", include that information. If you think the most important thing is for me to rewrite a post from Robin Hanson or another contributor, go ahead and say so. To avoid recency effects, you might want to take a quick glance at this list of all my OB posts before naming anything from just the last month - on the other hand, if you can't remember it even after a year, then it's probably not the most important thing.
Please also distinguish this question from "What was the most frequently useful thing you learned, and how did you use it?" and "What one thing has to go into the book that would (actually) make you buy a copy of that book for someone else you know?" I'll ask those on Saturday and Sunday.
PS: Do please think of your answer before you read the others' comments, of course.
"You cannot rely on anyone else to argue you out of your mistakes; you cannot rely on anyone else to save you; you and only you are obligated to find the flaws in your positions"
It wasn't much of an "aha!" moment- when I first read it, I thought something along the lines of "Of course higher standards are possible, but if no one can find flaws in your argument, you're doing pretty well." but the more I thought about it, the more I realized that EY made a good point. I had later stumbled upon flaws in my long standing arguments that I had overlooked, yet no one called me on.
Not only was the standard lower than I had previously realized, but it is entirely possible for someone to 1) not believe you 2) not be able put their refutation into words, and 3) still be right.
http://www.overcomingbias.com/2008/09/refutation-prod.html
The big problem with relying on someone else to save you is "Why would they bother?". No one is likely to be as motivated to find mistakes in your beliefs are you are (or at least as you should be).