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Being homosexual is today about making a choice to identify as homosexual.
I have a sustained preference to wear glaces but wearing glasses isn't part of my self identity. I don't think of myself as a glass wearer.
So. Imagine someone -- let's say a man -- who is in a long-term romantic and sexual relationship with another man, who has never felt romantically or sexually attracted to women but often has to men, but for whom "identifying as homosexual" is exactly as major a part of his life as "identifying as heterosexual" is for most heterosexual people.
Would you say that that person is, or isn't, homosexual?
I ask because it's still not clear to me which of two things you... (read more)