Sorry if I'm about 10 years late to this conversation, if this exact idea has already been propagated and responded to in detail, feel free to point me towards any existing resources.
Personal Beliefs: I am a staunch athiest/agnostic who does not believe in God, especially any specific God, as a matter of looking at the data and making a decision based on the evidence, with a high degree of certainty based on how overwhelming the bayesian evidence is.
Situation that brought this question to my mind: I was talking to a friend about their belief in the Christian God (denomination unknown), and they told me about how they found God later in life, and that they were actively suicidal (cutting, etc), and that volunteering for a Christian camp helping underprivileged children helped show them how powerful belief in God was and how the hope provided is a positive force in many, especially those with the least to be hopeful about otherwise, after which this friend started believing in God and stopped being suicidal. (I believe this friend is being entirely sincere, in case my tone did not convey that)
It seems to me that while I still believe that religion as a whole has a negative average expected value to the average person, this situation seems to paint to me a picture that for many individuals, the value of religion is one that is strongly positive, and that those who are likely to recieve the most benefits are also those with the least intersection with rationality, basically the opposite of WEIRD populations. I've never strongly tried to change the beliefs about relgion of others, but this revelation definitely makes it harder to try to quickly defend my athiesm to others or explain any disdain for religion that accidentally slips out, and also suggests that for many individuals, trying to convince them athiesm is correct would not only be socially rude, but also not even correct if one's goal is a consequentialist "wellbeing".
How does one deal with the situation when one believes trying to add information to a situation will consistently make people less happy/satisfied, it feels like a sort of cognitive dissonance, would this be considered an infohazard? (All of this assuming you can successfully identify those for whom religion adds net value, and you grant my proposition that it does for them)
Also, is this a consensus stance about how others here think about interacting with people who believe in religion, or am I missing some part of the picture?
I'm avoiding terms like "epistemic" and "consequential" and such in this answer, and instead attempting to give a colloquial one, to what I think is the spiritual question.
(I'm also deliberately avoiding iterating over the harms of blind traditionalism and religious thinking. Assuming since you're atheist, and you don't reject most of the criticisms of religion)
(Also also, I am being brief. For more detail I would point you at the library, to go reading on Christianity's role for the rise of the working and uneducated classes in the 1600s-1800s, and perhaps some anthropologist's works for more modern iterations)
Feel free to delete/downvote if this is unwanted.
It's hard to say "all religion is bad", when, without Christianity, when, for ex, Gregor Mendez' Pea studies might have come about a decade+ later. In absentia of strong institutions, Christian religion often provided structure and basic education where there was none. Long before the government began to provide schooling and basic education.
Sect leaders needed you to know how to read to read the bible, and would often teach you how to write as well. Due to this, it's hard to refute the usefulness of Christianity as an easy means of cultural through-line, staying culturally updated and locally-connected/invested in the people around their constituents.
Because the various sects of Christianity benefited greatly when their local populace was well-read and understood the bible. Religious leaders and pastors etc were incentivized to educate and build up the people around them. Whatever one might think about said leaders etc being unethical, they did provide a service, and they often encouraged and taught people skills or information they did not have before, because they were naturally invested in the local communities.
Their constituents being more wealthy and happier and having more connections and more well-socialized meant they were more able to coordinate. If you confess your concerns to your pastor, as coordination-problem-overcomers, they would often get you in contact with people in your local area who have the means and ability to help you with your problem- from rebuilding a burned-down barn, to putting in a wheelchair ramp for disabled people in trailer parks.
That is... I have no qualms with: "if it feels good, and doesn't harm others or impinge on their rights, it's okay to do it, with caveats*."
When the platonic ideal of the communal Christian Fellowship operates, it is well worth the time and energy spent. One need only listen to the song being sung, to tell if it is from Eru Illuvitar, or Morgoth's discord.