This is an experiment in short-form content on LW2.0. I'll be using the comment section of this post as a repository of short, sometimes-half-baked posts that either:
- don't feel ready to be written up as a full post
- I think the process of writing them up might make them worse (i.e. longer than they need to be)
I ask people not to create top-level comments here, but feel free to reply to comments like you would a FB post.
Perhaps degree of investment. Consider the amount of time it takes for someone to grow up, and the effort involved in teaching them (how to talk, read, etc.). (And before that, pregnancy.)
There is at least one book that plays with this - the protagonist finds out they were stolen from 'their family' as a baby (or really small child), and the people who stole them raised them, and up to that point they had no idea. I don't remember the title.