This is an experiment in short-form content on LW2.0. I'll be using the comment section of this post as a repository of short, sometimes-half-baked posts that either:
- don't feel ready to be written up as a full post
- I think the process of writing them up might make them worse (i.e. longer than they need to be)
I ask people not to create top-level comments here, but feel free to reply to comments like you would a FB post.
IMO, even this is too status-ey and centered on attributes of the person rather than crux-ey and centered on the discussion you want to have.
Frame things in terms of models of thinking and level of abstraction/generalization to apply here and now. There may be skills to learn (or even attributes that can't be acquired, making the conversation at that level impossible) in order to get there, but start with what you want to understand/communicate, not with an assumption of capability (or lack thereof).
Doing this is also a reminder that sometimes washing the dishes is just the fastest way to empty the sink - generalizing to some idealized division of labor and social reward scheme doesn't have to happen every time. It often works better to generalize when there's not an object-level decision to be made (but beware failing to tie it back to reality at all, or you'll ignore important details).