People with aphantasia typically think that when someone says to "picture X in your mind", they're being entirely metaphorical. If you don't have a mind's eye, that's a super reasonable thing to think, but it turns out that you'd be wrong!

In that spirit, I recently discovered that many expressions about "feelings in your body" are not metaphorical. Sometimes, people literally feel a lump in their throat when they feel sad, or literally feel like their head is hot ("hot-headed") when they're angry.

It seems pretty likely to me that there are other non-metaphors that I currently think are metaphors, and likewise for other people here. So: what are some things that you thought were metaphors, that you later discovered were not metaphors?

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SarahSrinivasan

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Feeling pain after hearing a bad joke. "That's literally painful to hear" is self-reportedly (I say in the same way I, without a mind's eye, would say about mind's-eye-people) actually literal for some people.

Where's the pain?

1Shelby Stryker
It is the "cringe" feeling I believe. Its embarrassment on behalf of the bad joke not landing. I could also be irritation that your brain didn't get the reward it was anticipating. 
4Eric Neyman
My understanding of Sarah's comment was that the feeling is literally pain. At least for me, the cringe feeling doesn't literally hurt.

these might all be relatively obvious but here are some I've found nice to notice

  • brain waves are actual waves of activation that pass through the brain
  • our neurons have actual literal weights, having more weight means having more stuff, physically. AI "weights" are named after that
  • in relativity, spacetime is actually one thing. saying "space and time" is missing the point. though of course until we get a ToE unclear if that model is physically true - but it sure seems like a hint to me
  • loud sounds are air smashing your ears
  • "I didn't hear that" when people's low level processing fails to parse words someone said despite being perfectly able to receive the audio. not usually playing fool, in my experience

quetzal_rainbow

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My example is when people say "I enjoy life" they mean actually enjoying life-as-whole and not like "I'm glad my life is net-positive" or whatever.

Ben Pace

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I also was kind of surprised when it turned out 'gut feeling' actually meant a feeling in your belly-area.

Added: I wonder if the notion of 'having a hunch' comes from something that causes you to hunch over?

Chipmonk

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I wrote about my own experience discovering “feelings in the body” here

Jacob Pfau

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For most forms of exercise (cardio, weightlifting, HIIT etc.) there's a a spectrum of default experiences people can have from feeling a drug-like high to grindingly unpleasant. "Runner's high" is not a metaphor, and muscle pump while weightlifting can feel similarly good. I recommend experimenting to find what's pleasant for you, though I'd guess valence of exercise is, unfortunately, quite correlated across forms.

Another axis of variation is the felt experience of music. "Music is emotional" is something almost everyone can agree to, but, for some, emotional songs can be frequently tear-jerking and for others that never happens.

Cheese Mann

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This feels closely related to Alexithymia or emotion blindness

Extremely common in: people with ADHD / Autism (potentially over half)

Fairly common in: people who have PTSD, people with substance abuse issues (possibly causal, alexithymia -> drugs to feel something), and men (male-normative alexithymia)

People with alexithymia often identify their emotions primarily through physical sensations

For me (a male with autism, ADHD and PTSD) I can tell I'm feeling scared or anxious if my legs get cold (I believe this is a common form)

Ppau

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Sorry, I'm being very pedantic, but how are "picturing" and "mind's eye" not metaphorical? It's not like there's an actual picture or an actual eye anywhere, in fact that's the whole point

There is (for me) an actual experience of a picture. It seems only slightly metaphorical to call the faculty of experiencing such pictures “seeing” by an “eye”.

One test for the possession of such a faculty might be to count the vertexes of some regular (not necessarily Platonic) polyhedron, given only a verbal description.

1Ppau
I didn't know about that test! Pretty neat, and it seems better than the "color of the apple" one To be clear I am not pushing back on the notion of aphantasia, although I'm not necessarily a fan And I don't think I have aphantasia My point was more about metaphors, and about the fact that much more of our communication relies on them than we realize
2Richard_Kennaway
That's not an official test, just something I thought up!
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Annoyingly I have the recollection of having thought "oh, that's not a metaphor?" several times in my life, but I don't seem to have saved what the things in question actually were.